Crazies

Soooo, I guess I am not cut out to be nice to people. I try sometimes and it bites me in the ass. Like lately, I added this girl (I'll call her R) to my facebook because we had a couple of mutual friends. (Usually I don't) So she starts telling me all the horrible things that have happened to her etc. (There is a lot!!!!) She was attacked, awful childhood, bad relationships etc. So I try to be nice, supportive, while keeping some distance. Because one of our mutual friends (I'll call him C) told me R has "attachment issues" meaning she latches on to anyone she sees as a friend. So last night R asks for my home address to 'send me something'. I refused because 1. I think that C has a point (she showed up on his doorstep one night claiming she had been assaulted in Boston. - 2+ hours away). 2. I am uneasy giving that information to anyone - especially now I have kids. And 3. I am starting to get tired and annoyed by her rantings. She has self esteem issues and other baggage. So I basically told her no and she started to wig out a little. I mentioned keeping my kids safe - she took it as I thought she'd hurt my kids. Etcetera, etc., etc... I am just tired of defending my position, so I unfriended her, told her to have a nice life. I guess I am just not as nice as I would like to be. Oh well, I am nice to the people who REALLY matter in my life. If you start whining too much I will tell you to shut up, as long as you promise to do the same to me.

Been a long day, we went to Mom & Dad's for breakfast and lunch and went grocery shopping. Did laundry and showered at the 'rents. Kids are now in bed - S never took a nap today so she was extra tired, and even though MJ took a nap she is passed out as well. MJ ate a whole jar of ham, pineapple and rice baby food tonight. Right. Before. Bed. Love it, she'll sleep good tonight, and hopefully so will I.

I got John addicted to Backyard Monsters. He built his yard and is now attacking random people. I'm so proud! He admitted he was having more fun attacking than just sitting around. ROFL. OK - time to go attack some backyards. and tend to my frontier, farm and cafe... Work, work, work...